As I reflect on my life at 53, I realize that my journey has been anything but ordinary. Diagnosed with thyroid cancer in 2016 and breast cancer in 2017, I’ve experienced a whirlwind of emotions, challenges, and unexpected lessons. This blog is a testament to my resilience and a reminder that life, even in the face of adversity, is a beautiful gift.
Receiving a cancer diagnosis is a moment that forever alters my life. In 2016, when I learned I had thyroid cancer, I felt an overwhelming sense of disbelief. The word "cancer" carries a weight that is hard to believe.
Then, in 2017, the news of breast cancer hit me again, like a cruel twist of fate. Each diagnosis brought with it a wave of fears: fears for my health, my family, and my future. But through these challenges, I discovered an inner strength I never knew I had, and it’s all because of my faith to the one who owns our life, JESUS. The author of my life.
The journey through treatment was frightening. There were surgeries, chemotherapy and countless hospital appointments. Each day presented new difficulties, yet I found comfort in the small victories, like finishing my first round of chemotherapy or simply getting out of bed on tough days.
Support from church community, workmates, biological family, extended family and friends became my help. Their encouragement helped me navigate the difficulties of treatment. I learned the importance of communication, allowing me to express my fears and frustrations, which ultimately lightened my emotional burden.
This year October 2024, I had this lump and edema on my left chest wall and left arm, and my right rib cage, there is pain that happens for no apparent reason (spontaneous pain) accompanied by prickling, burning, stabbing, tightness or electric shock-like pain, tingling, numbness, or a “pins and needles” feeling. This feeling is so disturbing on my everyday errands. But I trust in God that this is nothing. And so I keep calm and go on in my everyday life.
Cancer has a way of shifting my perspective. I began to appreciate the little things, sunrises, laughter with friends, and the warmth of my family. Each moment became more precious. I started a gratitude journal, noting things I was thankful for each day, which helped me maintain a positive outlook.
I also took the opportunity to explore new interests. I started this journey of buying and selling preloved bags and brand new bags and more.
Like what I experienced (having a second life), I want to give that preloved bag a second chance. People who purchase our bags are going to rewrite fashion stories with those specific bags. I find joy in doing that. It allows me to express my emotions in many ways, especially when I see people’s faces and their joy and happiness whenever they purchase our preloved bags.
Having faced cancer, I felt a strong urge to give back. I became an advocate for cancer awareness, sharing my story to inspire others. I connect to fellow survivors and offering hope to those still in the fight. Raising awareness about early detection and treatment options became a mission for me. I learned that sharing my journey could empower others to take charge of their health and fight for their life.
As I look to the future, I am filled with hope and determination. While I am still on battle and the scars of my battles remain, they serve as reminders of my resilience. I embrace each day with a renewed sense of purpose, eager to make meaningful connections and live life to the fullest.
Cancer may have changed my life, but it has also enriched it. I’ve learned that strength comes in many forms, and the journey is just as important as the destination.
Life after cancer is a journey of rediscovery. I am grateful for the lessons learned and the relationships build up along the way. As I continue to navigate this path, I choose to focus on God and the beauty of my existence, celebrating the highs, embracing the lows, and cherishing every moment.
Thank you for being a part of my story. Together, we can raise awareness, offer support, and remind one another that even in the face of adversity, we can thrive.
To God be all the glory.
22 October 2024
