While a lot of people say that as parents we shouldn’t be friends with our children, it is something that happens no matter what. If you have a positive relationship with your mother, she will become your best friend whether it’s when you’re young or years later when you’re finally an adult. If not she will be your worst enemy and you will hate her for the rest of your life. So choose to be your “MOM’s BEST FRIEND”
Sure, you might not see it right now, and it might not be something you realize within the next few years even, but once you lose your mom, you will begin to come to terms with how much she indeed was your best friend and so much more. The relationship I have with my mom is the most important relationship I have in my life, and that might sound a bit weird to some, but if you have a positive connection with your mom, you know exactly what I am talking about.
I experienced to have another mother (spiritual Mom) in our church. She is the one giving me so much wisdom. She discipline me with love. And i know she loves me like her own daughter. She passed away yesterday March 10,2020. I cried 😭😭😢😢😭😢too much when i heard what happened to her. She means so much to me and i love her so much. She is like a mother to me. I am so blessed coz i had a chance to expressed my love to her last 2017 when i visited them and stayed in her daughter’s place which happened to be my close friend and proud to say that she is now Mayor in Bocaue Bulacan Philippines. It’s heartbreaking to hear someone we love passed away but i know she is heaven now. No more pain. No more agony… No more sickness… And I know she is happy with God right now…
My mom or my nanay as I have gotten older we are not too close. I am close to my tatay or my father. But when we both received Jesus as our Lord and personal Savior we become closer than before. The things I used to be afraid to talk to her about are now things we share words over easily especially our journey with God. We are both open and honest with one another and really care about each other on a level that no one else could really compare to. I have realized through a lot of thinking that when I was younger I had been a complete trouble maker for her and also have taken the time to apologize for that.
When she became sick and got a colon cancer I decided to go home and take care of her. When she undergo operation i got a chance to look after her. As a nurse, that is the one i am always dreaming to let them feel the love and care i am to other patients. Now that i have a chance to share it to her praise God for that opportunity. Helping her in taking a bath, washing her, combing her hair, assisting her in bed and changing position and giving her my tender loving care Not just as a nurse but a daughter who loves her so much.
I think a mother is the one person I know now that I can call in the middle of the night if I truly need her. She loves me unconditionally and I love her unconditionally. I have kept her up at night without realizing it and she has always worried about me in ways other people never will. My mom is a great best friend and I would not trade her for the world.
We will realize just how important she is when she is finally gone and by that time it will be too late so please do our best to understand the relationship we have with the woman who brought us into this world. She is the person who helped to make us who we are right now, she has cared for us through the ups and downs life has placed before her and even when she was struggling she make time to play with you and do her best to bring a smile to our face.
She was there when we went through breakups, if she is not too strict. My mom is very strict on boyfriend stuff but she was there when we fell off our bike, and if we ever needed her for anything she would only be just a call away. She wants the best for us and works hard to see that we even now are able to live a good life. If we are struggling she will always come through the help in any way she can and she deserves some acknowledgment.
Your nanay,ina,mom,mum,mommy,mama,or any title you are calling your mother is the one person that should be deemed your best friend above everyone else. She isn’t some bratty girl from down the road or a co-worker who is going to leave you hanging when you need them the most. She is the person who has stood by you when you were treating her badly and made sure you still had all you needed in life. She might not be the same woman she used to be now that you’re older and she’s getting up there in age but she will continue to love you completely until the day she takes her last breath. LOVE you mother deeply.
Nanay THANK YOU for giving me a chance to experience this role, to become a Mother to my two sons (Luigi and Edel). Thank you for giving me education and for raising me up to become a person God wants me to be. What i am today it’s because you sacrificed everything just for my own good. I LOVE YOu 😍😘❤️💕🥰
Praise God for giving my Nanay loong life. Until now i can say God is really sustaining her life. I pray for long and satisfy life to her.
